Favours

I've decided I've hated doing people favours and it isn't because I'm a cruel son of a bitch it's because of the way people act when they know they owe you something. There are many ways a person can react after they receive a favour, one is that they try to undermine what you did for them or talk about how it wasn't really going out of your way or anything. Well I'm sorry but it was out of my way and it took a lot of effort for me to kick down my inner demon and actually help you out so fuck you if you think it was easy.

Then another way is to overthank you for the favour in an attempt to return the favour by telling you how much it means to them or how great you are. Quite frankly I know I'm great and I don't care that it meant a lot to you a favour is only repaid by a favour not by words, there is no way you are getting out of that by telling me I'm an amazingly good friend.

Why can't anyone ever just say "Thanks for the help buddy I really owe you one" and then not pussy out if I actually need something. Though I guess I never really do need favours because I'm able to survive without other people holding my hand...but still it would just be nice for people to accept a favour with a bit of grace.