Will you go out with with meeeee?

At what point do you consider the girl that you're seeing your girlfriend? Apparently in a backwards step for all males, it has been defined by the fairer sex as: only after you ask the question of "will you go out with me". This outdated concept was still found to be in practice after one of the guys found that they were still not considered an item dispite the repeated dates occuring on a regular basis. It makes you wonder what the ladies expect of guys. Judging by this outcome, the wining, dining, spending time together with, cooking for and seeing exclusively isn't enough for the average female. I mean if you've made out with the girl (while not intoxicated) and made arrangements to do it again.... you're together. You can't consider them a random anymore if you've seen them more than twice.

Having to ask the question "will you go out with me" is a degrading process for the bloke. Even after putting in alot of effort and finding out that this girl is actually worth contining to see, you can rarely ever stomach saying that sentence. Forcing your mouth to say the words makes you feel like you're back in primary school.

What should be occuring is a natural progression from friend to significant other. Over the process of seeing each other regually, you should be pretty much getting a feel for if the relationship is progressing any further. If the two people in the relationship don't know if there's any more attachement then friends then chances are that there isn't. Females should just accept that in the only time that they should hear something signifying that you're together should be when you're introduced as his girlfriend.

BlenderedLove